Self-directed Online Learning
Our members have told us that committing to face-to-face learning, or even completing a facilitated online course at a fixed time, can be challenging among the normal day-to-day of caregiving.
So, we’ve taken that feedback onboard and reshaped our training into manageable chunks of learning that can be completed at your own pace, in your own time. These courses cover key concepts in therapeutic parenting for you to add to your kete (basket) of caregiving knowledge.
All Caring Families Aotearoa training is based on Dan Hughes’ Dyadic Developmental Practice, which creates healing through relationships. We also offer training on the National Care Standards for Oranga Tamariki and NGO caregivers.
Each course takes about one hour to complete.
NEW! Caregiving 101 - Tools, Resources & Advice for FORMAL Caregivers
This course is for caregivers who receive a board payment for a child in their care.
Both Caregiving 101 courses can be completed if you feel it would be helpful.
It is designed for formal, or statutory (inside the state care system), caregivers who open their homes and hearts to tamariki (children) and rangatahi (young people) in need of care and protection.
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It offers valuable insights into their unique role and responsibilities, as well as guidance to understand the challenges and rewards of caregiving. We hope to give you tools, techniques, and resources to navigate your caregiving journey and to create a positive and nurturing environment for the tamariki and rangatahi in your care.
NEW! Caregiving 101 - Tools, Resources & Advice for INFORMAL Caregivers
This course is for caregivers who receive the Unsupported Child’s Benefit, The Orphan’s Benefit or receive no board payment for a child in their care.
Both Caregiving 101 courses can be completed if you feel it would be helpful.
This course is designed for informal, or non-statutory (outside the state care system), caregivers who open their homes and hearts to tamariki (children) and rangatahi (young people) in need of care and protection.
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It offers valuable insights into their unique role and responsibilities, as well as guidance to understand the challenges and rewards of caregiving. We hope to give you tools, techniques, and resources to navigate your caregiving journey and to create a positive and nurturing environment for the tamariki and rangatahi in your care.
How Trauma Impacts the Child's Brain
Have you ever wondered why children who have experienced trauma may react in ways that seem puzzling or overwhelming? In this training you will learn how children’s brains develop and how trauma can disrupt this process. Understanding these changes can help you respond with empathy and provide the right support children need to heal and grow.
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Here are the main objectives of this training:
- Learn how trauma, abuse, and neglect shape a child’s developing brain.
- Explore how trauma influences children’s behaviour and emotions.
- Gain supportive guidance on the biological roots of trauma.
- Recognise how trauma manifests in everyday behaviours.
- Discover how your responses can help children heal and rebuild trust.
- Feel more confident and equipped to support children with empathy and practical tools.
Caregiver reviews
“This course was a good refresher for me. It made me more conscious of how trauma can affect the ability to learn, and the need to do things consistently and repeatedly to allow time and patience for learning to happen.”
“So very helpful to be reminded of how trauma effects brain development. Will help me not to react so quickly to the behaviour, as I have a great understanding of where it comes from.”
Introducing DDP-Healing at home
This course explores the core principles of Dyadic Developmental Practice DDP parenting—PACE (Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, Empathy)—and how they can be put into action within the home. DDP is the guiding model adopted by Caring Families Aotearoa, and this course will help you understand how to integrate its principles into your caregiving journey.
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Dyadic Developmental Practice (DDP), developed by Dr. Daniel Hughes, is an approach designed to support children who have experienced trauma and disrupted attachments. It focuses on creating a safe and supportive environment through responsive, attuned caregiving that builds trust and emotional security.
DDP aligns with the values of manaakitanga (nurturing care), aroha (compassion), and whanaungatanga (deep connection). It recognises the importance of whakapapa (identity and belonging) in the healing journey of tamariki.
Caregiver reviews
“This course has taught me to stop in the moment, step out of my adult priorities and approach the behaviour the child is displaying with PACE. I will now take the time to listen, ensuring I can hear what the child is trying to say, not what I think they are saying. Patience, empathy and genuine connection!”
“Now I will use PACE, especially the Playfulness one with my children. I’ll try to talk more about feelings in various situations.”
Attachment 101
This course offers a foundational understanding of how early attachment experiences shape a child’s emotional and social development. It covers key concepts; attachment styles, the caregiver’s role in fostering secure attachments, and examines the impact of loss and separation on children in care.
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Attachment shapes how we connect, trust and grow. By understanding its roots and behaviours, we unlock the tools to nurture resilience and healthy relationships in children. It is important for you to understand as most children in care have insecure attachments due to their past trauma and adversity.
Caregiver reviews
“It’s really good. All the caregivers and OT Social Workers should do these courses more often. I wish I had done them before.”
“I have more understanding of their attachment styles. This will help me manage how I respond to what’s going on for them in different circumstances.”
Developmental and Historical Trauma
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You’ll learn to recognise signs of trauma, understand their effects on emotional regulation, relationships and brain development. Explore strategies to create safe, supportive environments, and much more.
Caregiver reviews
“Very informative. I now have a better understanding of developmental trauma and how to support my children through it.”
“I found the historical trauma sections really interesting. The section on supporting children with developmental trauma reinforced the importance of the different ways emotional resilience can be built over time.”
Healing using the House Model of Parenting
We look at Kim Golding’s House Model of Parenting, which is a framework designed to help caregivers provide a safe and nurturing environment for children, especially those who have experienced trauma or adversity.
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The key parts of the House Model, such as boundaries, nurture, and guidance, are a common thread across many of our training courses. Healing using the House Model of Parenting will give you a good understanding of them all.
Caregiver reviews
“Excellent. I will now try to create an environment that is predictable for the child and myself, allowing the time to observe and interact with the child to recognise emotional triggers and patterns.”
“It’s been a helpful reminder that our children do have a secure base in our home, even though it can feel chaotic at times! I will try to be more empathetic and not jump so quickly to solutions.”
Understanding well-being through a cultural lens
This course will show you how to use a cultural model to develop a holistic view of your own well-being and that of others. It is a gentle learning experience giving you the time to explore how connection and balance contribute towards overall well-being.
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At Caring Families Aotearoa we acknowledge and celebrate the many different cultures that make up and contribute to our country. We embrace these differences as they form the foundation of our identity – both as individuals and as a community. Each culture is steeped in history and lore, and each has their approach to health and well-being. This course focuses on well-being from a Māori perspective.
The information it contains is a humble offering of centuries of knowledge passed down through generations by way of stories, karakia (spiritual incantation), waiata (songs), whakapapa (genealogy) and practice. We have taken a small cross section of that knowledge to share.
Caregiver reviews
“I am so grateful for doing this course. I love this model of wellbeing – I studied Te Whare Tapa Whā at Uni, but this course was really great for having a deeper understanding of the connections and relationships you need to nourish with a positive mindset.”
“I have a good understanding of hauora and whare tapa whā however this was a good reminder. I made a note to be intentional, to set some small daily practises to support my wairua and tinana.”
Why Therapeutic Parenting?
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Therapeutic parenting aligns with the principles of manaakitanga (care and compassion), wairuatanga (spiritual wellbeing), and whanaungatanga (building strong relationships). It acknowledges the impact of mamae (hurt) and whētuki (trauma) on tamariki and seeks to restore mauri (life essence) and mana (dignity) through consistent, empathetic, and culturally grounded care.
By using empathy, consistency, and understanding, therapeutic parenting helps children regulate their emotions, form secure attachments, and build healthy relationships. It focuses on addressing the underlying needs behind challenging behaviours, promoting long-term emotional and psychological well-being.
Caregiver reviews
“Some helpful strategies when dealing with undesirable behaviour.”
“Loved it. I learned how different traditional parenting is (the way I went through childhood), compared to therapeutic parenting – which is the way I will start to teach my children.”
How our Past Shapes Parenting
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The information it contains is a humble offering of centuries of knowledge passed down through generations by way of stories, karakia (spiritual incantation), waiata (songs), whakapapa (genealogy) and practice. We have taken a small cross section of that knowledge to share.
Caregiver reviews
“A very good course. I will focus now on my strengths and not be so hard on myself when things go sideways. I’ll also be more aware of the body language the kids display.”
“The course flowed well and explained aspects simply but effectively. An hour so so well spent, thank you.”
What are ACES / Adverse Childhood Experiences?
This course breaks down Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). ACEs are traumatic events that occur in childhood, such as abuse, neglect, and household dysfunction. These experiences can significantly impact a child’s development and long-term health.
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Understanding ACEs is the first step on the journey to therapeutic care. There are four parts to this training:
- An introduction to Adverse Childhood Experiences
- How to identify ACEs and understand their long-term effects on health and opportunities
- Protective factors and therapeutic strategies to support children and help them build resilience
- Creating a safe and nurturing environment for children affected by ACEs.
Caregiver reviews
“This course is very helpful for my understanding of ACE’s and has a lot of information on how I can improve and do things better to help the children… thank you.”
“Through this learning, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of how early trauma (ACEs) can shape a child’s behaviour, development, and ability to trust others. I now see that challenging behaviour is often a response to pain or fear, not simply disobedience.”
Taking Care of Yourself
This course is coming soon.
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What is Blocked Trust
This course is coming soon.
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National Care Standards
The National Care Standards set the minimum requirements that must be met for tamariki and rangatahi in care, as well as the support caregivers should receive when they open their hearts and homes to children.
There are SIX parts to the National Care Standards. We have adapted them into four easy-to-understand, self-directed courses giving caregivers a clear understanding of their rights and responsibilities.
Accessing our new training
We aim to make our training available to as many caregivers as possible.
If you are a caregiver or professional supported by an agency other than Oranga Tamariki or Work and Income, please check with your agency first before registering on one of our courses.
Looking for more?
There’s more exciting online learning to come. Watch this space for some shorter, self-directed versions of our former training courses, as well as some brand new content.
If you want to be the best therapeutic parent you can be, we’ll have a course for you, no matter what stage you are at in your care journey!
Learning Resources
We have put together a library of supplementary training resources to help you on your therapeutic parenting journey. These can be used to help refresh your learning, shared with other caregivers in your network, or printed out to post around your whare (house) as an everyday reminder.
